My Story.

Ok if you've read my previous posts you will have an idea where Im up to with dealing with the ex and her PA antics.

Last Thursday morning my kids rang me and said the following

"Dad, have you paid mummy any more money yet"

I replied with "No daddy doesn't need to pay mummy any more money"

They kept asking the question but didn't know what to say or ask because they had their mother coaching them in the background, I could hear her as clear as day.

I shut down the topic and moved onto something else fairly quickly to put them at ease as I could see it was bothering them.

They then asked me what time I was picking them that night.

I was 20 minutes away from picking them up and I get a text from the ex. which read as follows:

"Pay me more money or you're not getting the kids until you do"

I had to pull over as I was ropable, but calm given the situation I was faced with. I could only imagine the things she tells the kids.

I replied with "I am coming to pick up the children as discussed I'll be there in 20minutes"

Then she replies with "They are asleep and they're not going with you"

I replied with "I'll be there in 10 minutes" and followed up with a "I'll be there in 5 minutes"

No replies from her so I turned up anyway and knocked on the door three times, I even videotaped it just incase she created a scene.

She would not answer the door. I asked her father if she was home and he replied with yes she's there. (She lives in the house next door)

So Thursday night I sent her a plain old message, which read.

"When do the children get to see their father again and when do I get to see them"

She replies with "Pay me more money and you can see them"

Need I say anymore on what most of you are thinking right now, and I wonder how this would stand up in court. It is plain and simple, Parental Alienation at its worst and Greed as well.

I managed to get my daughter on Friday from school but not my son as he was sick and didn't attend.

Now to add fuel to the fire my daughter asked me on Friday night the following question

"Daddy, how come you didn't come and get me and XXXXX last night"

Again, parental alienation at its worst!!!

I explained to my daughter that I did come to get them and even showed her the video.

She says "Why didn't mummy answer the door"

How do you explain stuff like that to kids you ask. Beats me.

Anyways Im off to court next week as the ex. wants more money, and I want consent orders done, so I can see my kids regularly without the ex screwing me and the kids around.

I'll let you all know how it pans out next week.